Naija....uv just got to love it.
So basically i have been in naija for almost a year and i would not trade this for anything...Jokes everyday! Like watching chelsea fans parading along the streets of ikeja just before the champions league match.
So many things can happen only in naija. Its a trip most of the time but one thing i dont think i can ever get my head around is the Aristo thing...or for those who dunno( abeg brush up on naija lingo ah ah) its the trend of all these old men with young chicks.
Its so sad that its seen as acceptable...afterall a man is always gonna be a man right..and thats just what men do..( for my future husband if u r reading this..or ever get to...this is not only grounds 4 divorce..im gonna go Lorena Bobbitt on u..no jokes).
Not sure if it makes me naive or whatever, i really dont care..i just find the whole thing really irritating...why the hell would i wanna start kissing on a dude whos old enuff 2 b my daddy cos he has some money in the bank...abeg chilllllll. Im not trying to sound holier than thou or anything cos trust me im far from that but i think u have to draw the line somewhere sha. Fair play to people who can do that wit a clear conscience..I know i wont like the idea of my dad getting it on with my friend.
The worst part of it is cos im so against the whole thing i've never even learnt the best way to deal with it, without letting the guy know exactly what i think of him and his stupid money...
...How do u tell a client that u dont play like that when ur managers are telling you to keep him sweet( why the hell does Naija not have sexual harassment laws abeg ehn!!!)...Guys please explain..what makes a guy invites his friends daughter out clubbing???
In the course of my complaints to my friends and colleagues about all the daily crap...i heard some stories that honestly are unbelievable...
...Like being appraised by your boss and he's playing with himself
....Your boss literally chasing u around his office
....Going out of town for a meeting with a manager and he makes sure that only one room is booked for u both
God grant me patience cos i can see myself drop kicking some guy in the very near future...God help the fool who admonishes me for beating my elders!!!
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8 comments:
Yess.... Finally someone talks about it...hmmn...I dont know what can be done o, except jus vehemently refuse their advances, jus that these men will start mistaking it for a "stop it, I like it" tantrum...If u know what I mean...
I think the worst ones are the old men that make advances towards their children's friends/friend's children,that's just twisted
OMG are you for real with the last one about a trip out of town with the boss? What would a girl do in that situation? Nigeria needs some sexual harrasment laws like immediately.
The truth though is that there are many men out there who don't see anything wrong in chasing girls of their daughter's age. Let me stop there cos I'm already fuming....
i know!!! the worst part is when they start telling u..c'mon, you are not a child, dont be soo timid.pls leave me in my timid state..i dont want to be exposed..there needs to be some sort of sexual harassment law protecting female working class..is it a sin to be a fine career woman? haba!
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I TOTALI HEART U!!(no homo oo!)
Nwayz ok.. this aristo thing. I see it everywhere. Sometimes i actually shut my eyez 4awhile and think bout beta thingz to avoid goin crazie.
I went for a party last year and i saw dis chick kissin and grindin on a 70 yr old man. I mean dang!! She was wearin dis rily short dress and high heelz. D dude was practically on d floor(no jokes) and she was grindin her vajayjay all over his john thomas. I was DISGUSTED. And yes i knew he was 70 cos the dude i went with 2ld me... girlz need to try n respect themselves. Hv sum freaki dignity!!
Enuf sed.. i lllllllluv ur blog.
Lmao…I worked in Nigeria and def didn’t see all that harassment…yes they ask you out but you have a right to say no…
did a post on women who sleep with men for dough called, all na ashewo. check it out............
i have actually given a randy boss an abara before wen i was doing my I.T AT N.B.C
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